Mum's 49th day

This morning had a bowl of vegetarian mee soto and fried prawn and spring roll. Very delicious! Thereafter went bright hill to pray mum. It's her 49th day and most of the uncles and auntes turned up for the ritual for today.

Well, believe it or not... I had a conversion with mum after the ritual. She said "ma mi is leaving, you have to take care of yourself coz soon you will be a mother." She was in tears then I told her to take good care also... then she asked for Silly hubby. I went out to ask Silly hubby to come in and she held his hands "mama is leaving, you must take good care of Jiayi. I know she miss me a lot so you must spend more time with her, take good care of her eventhough you are always busy at work. Mama is leaving already..."

My tears flowed... after so long finally I get to talk to mum though I feel happy but at the same time really cant bear to see her go.

She left us... but to a better place without pain and sufferings.

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Dinner at Merchant Court with uncles and aunties

A big group of us (about 20) went dinner together. Have not been to Merchant Court for about a year. The standard is still quite good, there are cold appetisers like prawns, oysters, sashimi, and cooked food like sharks fin soup, fried hokkien mee, parankan food, crayfish and a lot more.

Durian dessert and black sesame and dumplings...

Yeah, this little gal again! She called me "bala yiyi" hahahaha.........